Friends Watch Party Recaps (Season 8): Babies, Crushes, & Rewrites | EPISODE 8
The One with the Season Recap
Oh, how things have changed! A season ago, Monica was accusing Rachel of stealing her thunder, and now she’s begging her to take a pregnancy test at her wedding! Yes, we pick up right after the “I dos,” where Rachel faces her pregnancy, Chandler attempts to dance, Ross tries to impress Mona, and Joey, well, Joey treats his best man speech like an audition.
Much of the season follows Rachel’s pregnancy journey, from red sweaters to working up the nerve to tell the father to that unforgettable videotape revelation. We also see how she navigates pregnancy as a single woman.
There’s a Halloween party where Phoebe meets her sister’s fiancé and we finally settle the age-old question: who’d win in an arm wrestle, Sputnik or a pink bunny. Then there’s another iconic Thanksgiving episode, which is more stuffed than a turkey’s rear end, so we’ll come back to that soon.
Remember Mona, the woman Ross met at the wedding? They have an… interesting relationship, complete with holiday cards, pink (sorry, faded salmon) shirts, and Rachel’s dad nearly coming between them. In the end, Ross just can’t balance dating with being there for Rachel during her pregnancy.
Phoebe meets the larger-than-life Parker, whom she brings to the Gellers’ 35th wedding anniversary, where Monica tries to prove she’s just as sentimental as her big brother. Speaking of things that went down like a lead balloon, out of nowhere Joey develops a crush on Rachel.
We also get another clip show, where Joey’s interviewed by Soap Opera Digest and panics he’ll blow it like the last time that ended with him getting the shaft… the elevator shaft, that is.
Before the season’s big event, there’s a baby shower and we discover our new favorite game, “Bamboozled.”
Then, after what feels like a lifetime, Rachel goes into labor, and a lot happens before the proposal no one saw coming. Least of all Joey.
The One Where They Heart New York
Just sixteen days before the season premiered, much of the world was glued to its screens as the news of the 9/11 attacks unfolded. Like many in the industry, especially those working on shows set in New York, the “Friends” team faced a difficult question: what now? The show had never really intentionally tackled real-world events, and “very special episodes” weren’t its style. The bigger question became, what do audiences need most? Executive producer and director Kevin S. Bright decided it was for “Friends” to stay what it had always been: comforting, familiar, and a source of light relief.
Instead, the crew quietly planted visual tributes around the sets: small doodles, an American flag in Central Perk, and clothing that honored first responders. The premiere episode was dedicated to the People of New York. It was their way of reaching out without breaking the show’s tone.
Unfortunately, and entirely by coincidence, they’d already planned and shot a storyline that simply wouldn't work in light of these events. If you own the DVD, you may have seen the alternate version of “The One Where Rachel Tells Ross.” In it, Monica and Chandler’s honeymoon takes a turn when Chandler makes an ill-timed joke in the airport and Monica makes an absent-minded comment that means they never reach their destination. Given that the episode aired just a month after the attacks, it’s clear why it was changed. Instead, we got the lighter version where Monica and Chandler keep losing out on perks to another newlywed couple.
The One with Rachel’s Pregnancy Arc
One thing Friends rarely gets enough credit for is how it portrayed what building a family can look like. Phoebe becomes a surrogate for her brother, Monica and Chandler eventually adopt, and Rachel experiences pregnancy as a single woman, which means confronting a whole new angle of what having a baby truly means, something Phoebe helps her work through. Between that and her talk with Ross, this becomes a defining moment. For the first time, Rachel’s life changes in a way she can’t escape. The panic, the uncertainty, and the desire for romantic relationships to planning co-parenthood make her grow up fast and face motherhood head-on.
Throughout the season, Rachel also contends with what it means to be single and pregnant in the dating world. When she starts to think her love life is over, Joey reminds her it doesn’t have to be. Slowly but surely she gains enough to defend Joey’s sister Deena, who’s in a similar situation. Her baby shower brings out her deepest anxieties, but Ross reassures her she’ll be a great mom and that he’ll be there for her. That comfort wavers when she reunites with Janice in the labor ward.
Because the father is part of the group, we also see Ross’s side, wanting to be supportive, even when he’s unsure how. Rachel’s story offered representation that felt rare at the time. We saw single motherhood shown mostly without judgment, with the message that family is about so much more than shared DNA.
The One with the Crush No One Asked For
Since we’ve mentioned it a couple of times already, let’s talk about one of “Friends’” most divisive storylines. It starts off with an innocent “friend date,” but pretty soon enough, Joey realizes he’s feeling way more than friendship. Some fans thought Joey and Rachel actually made more sense than Ross and Rachel. However, for a lot of us, including Matt LeBlanc and Jennifer Aniston, it made about as much sense as Joey sharing food or Rachel going back to work at Central Perk. LeBlanc even told producers he didn't think the storyline fit Joey and it made him “uncomfortable.”
Look, it was clear this was never going to grow into anything like what Rachel and Ross or Monica and Chandler had. If anything, it felt more like a spanner in the works, just a way to keep Ross and Rachel apart a little longer. But more on this next time.
“The One with the Rumor”
This Thanksgiving episode is often remembered as one of the best, mostly because of how well Brad Pitt, then Jennifer Aniston’s husband, gelled with the cast and for his ironically funny “I Hate Rachel Green Club” storyline. For fans used to seeing Pitt in serious roles, it was a fun surprise to see him do comedy so well. Aniston has called him one of her favorite guest stars ever, and the role even earned Pitt an Emmy nomination.
But it’s impossible to ignore the episode’s biggest problem: its titular rumor. Once again, the writers had made the LGBTQIA+ community the butt of the joke. Soon after it aired, NBC received complaints, including one calling it “ignorant, insulting, degrading, and absolutely unprofessional.” It misrepresented what it means to be intersex and made it seem like something to be ashamed of. For such a popular show, that kind of messaging could be so harmful, especially to young people who might already feel like they have to hide. Intersex writer Matt Mitchell put it bluntly: “I can’t think about 'Friends' without thinking about the intersex joke… greenlit by people who held my community up to the light and tormented us for somehow being… less human than everyone else.”
As we mentioned last time, Marta Kauffman expressed regret over how they'd handled Chandler’s parent. So, we hope that, if the writers could travel back in time, this storyline would never have existed. But in the meantime, it’s another reminder to us all to learn from the past and do better.
The One with the World’s Longest Pregnancy
Okay, not really. Reportedly the longest pregnancy on record is 17 months, and Rachel comes close at something like 15. She finds out around Monica and Chandler’s wedding, which we’re told is May 15th. Give her a few weeks to realize she’s pregnant, and you’d expect a due date around February or March. And yet, Thanksgiving passes, barely a bump. Valentine’s Day passes. Still no baby. By “The One Where Rachel Is Late,” it’s now summer. The show stretches reality, yes, but it also captures the agony of waiting, the anticipation, the impatience, and those moments where time just feels like it moves differently.
Meanwhile, Monica and Chandler start thinking about parenthood, and Ross is reconsidering his feelings for Rachel. The friends all rally around, showing how much support matters when everything else feels like it’s changing fast. That moment when Monica gives up her baby name might seem small, but it’s so underrated in what it says about the bond between this group. Behind the scenes, Courtney Cox filmed this shortly after a miscarriage and has talked about the struggles of forcing herself to be funny while carrying that grief, something Monica would carry through the next couple of seasons, too.
By the episode’s close, Rachel is still haunted by Janice’s words. The idea that this little human is hers for life, and all the responsibility that comes with it, hits hard, especially mixed with hormones and exhaustion. It pushes her to take a leap, a leap that no one could have expected.
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