Top 10 Tips to Approach A Woman

12 Jan 2010

Here are 10 tips from dating coach David Wygant to approaching a woman.

1. Observe something.
Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural.

2. Smile.
This shows her that you are friendly and confident.

3. Do not hesitate.
When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.

4. Positive body language.
Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.

5. Not too fast.
A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.

6. Keep eye contact
Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching.

7. Listen up.
Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.

8. Do not fidget.
If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.

9. Lighten your tone of voice.
Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like I hope you saved some turkey for me,” followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking.

10. Lean away from her.
Lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.