
College Life: Blurry Lines between
Teammate and Opponent
Athletes
get traded often. They sweat, bleed and
cry for their team but must shift their
allegiance once they put on that new jersey.
While most will remember their old team,
fans and teammates with fondness, their
goals become consistent with those of their
new team. If you want to win
the Championship, you may have an old enemy
cast as an ally.
Colleague
Or Competitor
Students
need not work
with those they dislike. After all,
they can avoid one another and choose their
own group mates. But in some instances,
professors may lump students into groups
based on schedule, majors and other factors.
If
you find yourself in such a setting, you
may be prone to ask for a proverbial trade.
The recommendation is to stick it out and
emerge as a diplomat as opposed to a prima
donna.
Officially
you will be working against the average
and not other students. As a result, you
will rarely have actual opponents in school
even though you will all be fighting for
the same pool of jobs down the road.
Friend
Or Foe?
Football
is a consummate team sport. The offensive
line must move the defensive line in one
direction and open up holes so that the
quarterback can hand off the ball to a running
back. The entire team must repeat this over
and over until they get those magical 10
yards, only to start from scratch.
Sometimes
however, when time is running out and the
team is desperate, the offense must get
aggressive. The team can change the momentum
of the game in one swift play, but they
can also lose everything outright. Imagine
that the signal caller now decides to go
long – very long.
In
sports, the weather affects both teams.
The home crowd affects the away team adversely
but adds pressure to the home team. The
only thing that either team has to worry
about is the opposition.
In
school, you will have to work with students
who will one day compete with you for employment.
As a result, even members of your own group
may have unclear allegiances and shifting
loyalty.
Imagine
the quarterback asking the offensive line
to block so that his wide receivers have
enough time to make it downfield to catch
the hail marry pass.
Enemy
Or Ally?
How
would the quarterback feel if his running
back sacked him to end the game? Confused,
angry and bitter.
This
would never stand in football but in business
and in business
school, it is all too common.
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